This time last week, we were at our city's convention center surrounded by dozens of prospective wedding vendors for my sister's ceremony and reception. It was actually a productive few hours as she narrowed down the list of those she's considering.

Today was even more helpful as we visited her ceremony/reception venue, Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden, for a wedding event to introduce couples to the site's preferred vendors. These are caterers, florists, photographers, DJs, etc. who have worked with the Garden most often and have a proven track record. Organizers only invited couples who'd booked a date at the venue so this event was much, much smaller than The Bridal Showcase. But it served the same purpose, providing an opportunity to talk face-to-face with vendors.

Going to an open house or wedding vendor event like this is also another opportunity to "get excited" with the bride. The venue can play a big part in the ambiance of a wedding and brides put hours of time and thought into choosing the site. It's always reassuring for her to hear lots of oooohs and aaaahs about her excellent choice. For me, it was easy, though, because Daniel Stowe Botanical Garden is absolutely gorgeous and was named one of the nation's "20 Great Gardens" by HGTV. Way to go!